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Weekend Coffee Share: Pre NaNoWriMo Edition

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee I would offer you the best chair in my house. That’s the armchair facing the fireplace. Then I would bring out a large platter of thickly sliced homemade pumpkin bread with real butter. And pour you a jumbo sized steaming cup of something yummy. After you settled in, I would apologize for being an inattentive, distracted and downright absent coffee pal for the last few months.

This fall has been a giant cluster of crazy, expected and often just plan old frustrating events. I’ve dealt with some family illness, school projects that ate up whole weekends, a wild turkey invasion and I’m just finishing the guest bathroom remodeling project from hell. But I refuse to drag down our current good mood with all the sordid details! Believe me when I say only events of epic proportions would keep me from our coffee shares for this long.

After you fill me in on your Halloween plans, I show you the costumes I’m making for myself and the kids. I love to make costumes every year.

We’ll talk about your family and you fill me in on some current job drama. Then we talk about NaNoWriMo. Nano

You already know Heather posted her fantastic plan for winning this week. But you didn’t know I’ve jumped into the NaNo fray too! It’s only a week away and I’m excited to share my news. This is my third time, so I have a good idea of what works for me at this point. My plan is to start with two different book projects. This might sound crazy to you, but when I get stuck on something in my writing I’m stuck! It can take a few days for me to process the issue and decide how I want to fix it. By having two projects going at once I can jump back and forth and not lose those any writing hours. If I end up with most of a good first draft of one project and some scattered scenes on the other project that’s fine with me.

Since I know I’m NaNo bound next month, it’s made me shift my writing focus this month. I’m spending all my time freewriting and brainstorming my new story. I’ve also joined a group of very active Twitter sprinters and we have been pounding the keys every Friday this month. I’ve managed to set down a few thousand words in every session. I’m also trying to stock pile all my November blog posts, including the one I’ve promised to write for Part-Time Monster’s Monday Monsters. My posts there are all on creatures from Hispanic myths and legends. It’s a great blog series and well worth reading.pumpkin-seeds-988598_640

Since we’re both pressed for time this weekend (those pumpkin seeds don’t roast themselves), and we need to put the finishing touches on our Halloween costumes, you slurp up and run. Before you leave we make a promise to do this again soon.

 

 

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana, over at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are hosting a coffee party by checking out her hashtag: #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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Weekend Coffee Share – The Month of New Beginnings

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee, I might actually be drinking coffee instead of tea because I need the extra boost after a hectic week! You sip your hot beverage of choice and look at me quizzically. What happened? You thought I was pretty much done the video game script and I’d be focusing on my novel this month. Why am I so busy? Well, it all started with my yearly beginning-of-September panic…

September has always been the month of new beginnings, the month I take stock of the last year, the month I look at my life and ask, “What the hell am I doing?” I wrote a bit about this in last week’s post (Deadlines: Harmful or Helpful?), where I lamented again how much longer writing a novel is taking and came up with some ideas to do better. What I didn’t reveal in that post is my bank account is dangerously low. This is nothing new since I’ve been a freelancer for well over a decade, saving my pennies between gigs so I can buy myself time to work on my personal projects. I always seem to get more work just when I need it. However, I came to the conclusion that I’m totally sick of living like this.

Now don’t spit-take your coffee – I am not trading in my freelance freedom for a 9-to-5 job. Hells no! You know I’m not a morning person. 😉 But I decided I need a part-time job that’s a little more regular. I also decided this part-time job should have nothing to do with writing. Instead, it should be something that gives me a break from the voices in my head, something active, something I’ve been pondering for a couple years now, something I love so much that it doesn’t matter that the pay isn’t great because I’ll have fun doing it…

Gymnastics Coach!

Now, if we’ve been having coffee for a while, this comes as no surprise. You’re probably nodding your head like that was the most natural transition in the world. You might even ask what took me so long. But if we’re new friends, you might think this is a weird part-time gig for a writer. For the full explanation, check out this post: What Gymnastics Taught Me About Writing.

23 I get my first certOnce I made this decision, I casually mentioned it to the woman who owns the gymnastics academy where I train, expecting that I’d take my coaching courses over the next couple months and start shadow coaching in the winter session, but she wanted me to start ASAP! So within the week, I’ve taken my first coaching course and shadowed two classes. That’s on top of the three times a week I take gymnastics classes for myself. AND to make this week even busier, I’m Quality Assurance testing my episode of LongStory, the video game I wrote this summer. For more on that, read this. And somehow in the midst of everything, I still managed to eke out an hour a day on the novel.

Oh, and I almost forgot – the in-laws are in town this week and at our house every day.

So yeah, I’ve been busy. But super excited! The only real downside is that I have ZERO brain power to come up with a fresh blog post for this Monday, so I’ll be reposting an old favourite from the Writing Craft Archives.

How have you been? Do you take stock of your life in September too? Did you embark on any new beginnings this month?

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out the hashtag #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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Weekend Coffee Share – Bike Raving

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee, I’d lament that it is already August. How is that possible? Didn’t the summer just start? I seriously do not understand how time passes so fast. My mom used to say that time passes faster the older you get, but I didn’t really believe her until I hit my 30s. Now it’s like I’m in some weird warp where the clocks keep skipping hours and there is quite literally never enough time. Of course, I’ve also had a busy summer work wise, and the hours do disappear rapidly when there’s a deadline involved. On the plus side, I hope being this busy and panicked has made me a faster writer. Because I am super sick of being so painfully slow.

If we were having coffee, I’d concede that there have been bright spots amidst the panicked deadlines. My blog post this Monday on How To Get Work as a Writer was one of the best posts we’ve ever had, traffic wise. So yay! And last weekend I eked out some free time to rock the Bike Rave. Cycling around Toronto en masse with bikes lit up by glowsticks and lights is a neat experience. Even better are the speaker contraptions people attach to their pedal-powered vehicles so that we have music on the ride. It is a Bike Rave after all. Here are some pics…

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Trinity Bellwoods Park in Toronto, full of people and lit up bikes. #bikeraveTO

Riding towards the CN Tower behind the big speaker in the tricycle!

Riding towards the CN Tower behind the big speaker in the tricycle! #bikeraveTO

A tall bike sound system with lights! #bikeraveTO

A tall bike sound system with lights! #bikeraveTO

Next year you should totally come! Also, I am buying you this coffee because I’ve been such a crummy, absent friend lately. Hope to see you again sooner rather than later!

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Coffee Share and Cat Care

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee, I might not be in the best mood. I would still welcome you into my home. And serve up your chosen beverage. Hot or iced?

You’d know from the bags under my eyes and the fact that I’m not serving fresh baked anything, that something is very wrong.

The news pours out of me, sometimes with a tear or two.

It all started about two weeks ago. My family was coming back at about 9 pm after hiking all day. My husband’s extremely old (17 years) cat ran out the front door as we were struggling (with water bottles, dusty boots and backpacks) to come in the front door. We have a space in the center of our circular drive packed with dogwoods, camellias and azaleas and he ran right into the thickest part of it. We suspected he just wanted to cool off after being stuck in a stuffy house and since we couldn’t see much, we decided to grab some flashlights before mounting a search party.

He was only outside for about ten minutes.
The next door neighbor screamed!
A car swerved into the gravel along side of the road by her house and stopped.
Our cat was lying in the road.

He survived the car accident, but with a broken scapula, broken ribs and some damage to his spine. Surgery to fix his spine (costing tens of thousands of dollars) might have killed him anyway. Instead, the vet ordered caged rest for 6 weeks. The hope is the spine will recover once the swelling goes down.

I don’t know if you have ever cared for an injured animal, but it is not easy. The first day he bit my husband, his favorite person in the world. Needless to say, I have been very careful to keep the kids out of his way when the pain is making him truly grumpy.

My days (and nights) are set by the schedule of cat nursing care. Giving him water with an eye dropper and feeding him food in tiny bites from a spoon as often as I can talk him into eating it. We also need to get up a few times a night to help him use a litter box. Or, if we didn’t move fast enough, to change his soaked bedding.

He also needs physical therapy several times a day. We need to move his limbs gently, and to help support him so he can sit up for a little while each day. We need to gently tap his tail and back legs so he will keep trying to move them and they don’t atrophy.

I’m happy to report he is doing much better. He’s moving his tail very well and his back legs are starting to support his weight. He sort of walks a few steps now, but it looks scary. He wobbles back and forth with his legs spread wide apart for balance. We have to bend over and hold our hands next to his body so he will not tumble over and hurt himself. When his strength runs out, we also need to lower him gently to the ground. He is not out of the woods yet; spines in cats are tricky and prone to re-injury, but we have hope.

The upside of all this home time is the kids and I have been spending a lot of time together. We are doing crafts, fun projects and playing board games.

Our first fun discovery was Google Camp. I can highly recommended this site for kids who enjoy learning about science topics. The videos and home DIY projects are amazing.

Tabletop-Castle-PanicAs a parent, I can’t say enough good things about cooperative board games. We love one called Castle Panic. We discovered this game on Wil Wheaton’s show Tabletop about two years ago. It has since become one of our favorite games. It’s also easy for my boys to refresh the game by adding their own homemade monster and weapon cards. My kids love to make their own games. Castle Panic is a lot of fun, so I would invite you to play a quick game.

If we were having coffee, I would send you home early. It would be time for more cat care. But I would promise to invite you back real soon.

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out the hashtag #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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Weekend Coffee Share at the PanAm Games

If we were having coffee, we’d be watching the Pan Am Games in my hometown of Toronto. I really want to go see Trampoline, but those tickets have been sold out for a long time. Perhaps we can scalp some? If not, we’ll watch it live on the iPad via the CBC app.

In between the athletes’ jumps, I’ll tell you the highlight of my week has been gymnastics. Not only did I see the Men’s and Women’s Artistic Gymnastics finals at the Pan Am Games on Tuesday, I started Trampoline Club on Monday and had regular gymnastics class on Wednesday. I must have been inspired by the athletes I saw Tuesday (we were sitting right by the uneven bars – my favourite event!) because I really gave it my all in class the next day and now my arms ache. But that’s how I get stronger, right?

I didn’t take many pictures, but here are a few from the Pan Am festivities this week:

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Fireworks for the Pan Am Games go off every night at Toronto City Hall.

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Flaming Lips Concert @ Toronto City Hall, Nathan Phillips Square

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Hard to get a non-blurry shot with my iPhone, but managed this one!

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Iron cross on the rings.

After I’ve talked your ear off about gymnastics, you ask how the writing is going, because we’re writers and this is usually what we talk about. I sigh, trying to release the stress and calm my nerves, but it does no good. Maybe I should be drinking decaf. I explain I’ve had barely any time to write my novel because this game script is four times longer than expected. Yes, not twice as long, four times as long. That’s the thing about working in a new industry on a new game – no one has quite figured out what the formula is and assumptions were made about the length of the scripts that were way off. Live and learn, right? But for now that leaves me struggling to meet deadlines and working every weekend this month.

With that, I’d better say goodbye and get back to work. I won’t have time to meet for coffee again until next month, so I wish you well in all your endeavours (whether they be writing or enjoying summer vacation) and wave goodbye. See you in August!

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out the hashtag #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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Weekend Coffee Share – On Being a Vampire-Turtle Hybrid Writer

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee, I’d meet up with you in the afternoon. This is unusual since I’ve always scheduled our coffee dates in the late morning so I can spend the afternoon/evening with my WIP because that’s when I write best. But do I really? I’ve been pondering that this week as I experiment with my writing schedule. Instead of running errands, replying to emails and managing Twitter in the mornings, I go straight to work writing.

So how did it go? you ask, with a hint of both skepticism and hope in your voice. You know I have never been a morning person. The rising sun actually makes me grumpy, whereas the setting sun perks me right up. Not for the first time, we both wonder if I’m part vampire. But as a morning person, you believe the crack of dawn is the best time to write. You get so much done before lunch! The feeling of accomplishment is amazing! I envy that. And that’s the reason I’m conducting this experiment – to try to get more writing done.

I never thought of myself as a slow writer, at least not when I’m hired as a freelancer and have a deadline that puts a fire under my butt. I can crank out those words when need be. But a novel is different. There’s no boss to give me direction and feedback, and that leaves me spinning my wheels sometimes as I try all by my lonesome to decide on the best way to tell my story. I attempted to push past that indecision and doubt and just write on, write fast, and that DID NOT work. I ended up scrapping everything I wrote in those moments. The takeaway? It’s not the writing I need to speed up, it’s the story development. So, maybe if I start thinking about my story earlier in the day, the breakthroughs will come sooner than midnight. Makes sense, right?

You agree it does. So have I been converted to the #5amwritersclub? I laugh so hard I spill my tea. 5am – as if! I’m part vampire. “Morning” to me is, like, 9am and not a minute earlier. Okay, fine, how’s 9am working? I admit for novel writing, it’s still very slow. My brain is seriously sluggish in the morning, even after drinking a whole pot of the blackest tea. It feels just like this moment in Orphan Black when Scott asks Rachel if she can go faster and she replies:

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One thing I’ve noticed, though, is that I can write blog posts and freelance jobs at a decent clip in the morning — as long as I’ve planned them out the night before. This strategy doesn’t work as well with the WIP, but it helps a bit. What’s clear is that no matter how I try to trick my brain into writing in the morning, it simply operates best in the evening.

Basically, I’m a vampire-turtle hybrid writer.

Instead of crying into my tea, I’ve decided to capitalize on this by always brainstorming before bed what to write the next day. As I said, this works well for blog posts and paid scripts, but not so well for the WIP. If it’s a WIP day and things are not moving, I’ll read a book so I don’t waste time staring at the computer screen. Usually reading unsticks the brain anyway. And it’s productive.

You sip your tea and smile knowingly. You still think if I keep at it long enough I’ll become a true morning writer. But I know this will never happen. Instead, with some pre-bedtime planning and practice, I hope to at least become a vampire-hare hybrid.

 

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out the hashtag #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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If We Were Having Coffee: PitMad Edition

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee, I would confess it’s been a crazy, exhausting week. We would grab seats in my garden, since I just refinished some lawn furniture for the occasion.

I have some interesting news to share; I took part in PitMad this week. I suspect some of my friends don’t know about this event, so let me explain. PitMad is a Twitter contest for writers looking for agents. You simply tweet a logline from your book project on the day and time of the contest. You can tweet up to twice an hour and change your tweet each time. That way you can search for the right combination of information to catch an agent’s eye. Agents and small presses will favorite the pitches they want to see sample chapters from. I know it sounds unconventional, but it works. Heather and I know a writer who signed a two-book deal after a small press found her book at PitMad.

There were about 50,000 tweets on June 4th, all within a 12 hour period. I got three agent favorites. All three from well-known agencies. And on three different pitches. Here is Heather’s favorite tweet:

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I’m not going to lie, I was hoping for a few more requests. But since only a tiny fraction of the tweets get any favorites at all, I’m beyond thrilled. Now comes the hard part: waiting quietly while they read my sample chapters. Check back with me in a few weeks and I bet my nails will be bitten the quick, and I’ll have worn a grove in the floor from pacing.

The next good part about my busy week is I’ve been a writing machine lately! Since I have of writing commitments stacked up this burst of creative juice is a blessing. I tend to work this way, in super productive spurts and dead stops. When I get into a spurt, I milk it for all it’s worth and get up at 5am to work when the house is quiet and cool.

Cool is especially important to me right now because summer is in full swing in California. Actually it arrived about 6 weeks ago, but the summer thunderstorms just started. I live in the foothills of the Sierra Nevada Mountains and big storms hit us pretty much all year, but the summer ones are especially dramatic. Fat black clouds appear out of nowhere, darkening the sky to dusk in minutes. Then Mother Nature puts on an impressive sound and light show. Sometimes the storms will dust us with summer snow or hail.

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The 150 year-old oak tree and towering pines in my back yard looking fresh and almost perfectly green.

The storms disappear just as fast, and magically reveal a vivid blue sky, and sun kissed but dripping trees. The storm Friday night rattled the kids and the cats into hiding, but also gave us a few drops of much-needed water in my parched home state.

Another storm is due today and since you don’t like driving the mountain roads when they’re wet, we end our visit early. The family and I wave goodbye to you just as the first fat raindrop lands and we scurry inside.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Weekend Coffee Share – Going Batty

LeCoffee-1If we were having coffee, I would brew enough caffeine to keep me alert for a week. The truth is, it’s been pretty crazy at my house lately.

We’re in the final countdown to the end of the school year and the kids are like sharks smelling blood in the water. They know summer freedom is just outside their reach, and they can’t stand waiting for it one more minute! I understand their excitement. Summer is all about slip and slides, cannon balls, water balloon fights, reading all day while lounging in a hammock, and camping trips where marshmallows are the last course of every meal. It’s good to be a kid in summer, but we’re not there yet! And their teachers are packing on the school work, hoping to extract the last ounce of brain power they have left.

Every day is a homework battle.

As the days grow longer, it’s also harder and harder to keep the kids in a normal sleep routine. It’s like they’re solar changing all day and can’t unwind when it’s bedtime. It’s made all of us grumpy in the morning and my eldest was begging for his own cup of coffee a few times this week.

It looks a bit like this, only larger.

It looks a bit like this, only larger.

Since we can’t sleep, we took the telescope out of storage. We have a 12 inch Meade Newtonian, and now that we live in the country with not a street lamp anywhere, the stars are super bright.The kids love it and are learning some astronomy and how to use the stars as navigation points.

Bat HouseWhile we were out there we caught sight of the summer’s first bats. They circled around our house in a small swarm, sparking fresh interest in getting up our bat houses so the poor little colony will have a place for their babies that is not my attic! The kids build the houses with these cool little kits we found online. There are an insane number of bat species in California. The ones we have at our house (thankfully) are rather small ones.

If we were having coffee, I’d apologize for being bad company and ask if we could call off the visit a bit early. My infectious yawn convinces you that sometimes even copious amounts of coffee can’t replace a good old-fashioned nap and we say goodbye until next time.

Before you leave, I would remind you to come back tomorrow for our special guest blogger. Shawn from Down Home Thoughts will be sharing what he knows about creating characters with character. It’s going to be fantastic, so you don’t want to miss it!

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out the hashtag #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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Weekend Coffee Share – Grilled Cheese & Gaming

If we were having coffee, I’d have you over to my house so I could chat and clean at the same time. I have to get ready for our biannual Grilled Cheese Party!

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Sandwich build table – Look at all those fancy grilled cheese ingredients!

This is also a birthday party since my boyfriend and I are both May babies. Birthdays are a great excuse to see friends, though I’m sad that I need excuses, but that’s my own doing. I’m so obsessed with finishing a book that I’ve become uncharacteristically antisocial. To that end, I plan to steer all party conversations towards what everyone else is up to… or cheese. I don’t want to talk about me. Hopefully by the next party I’ll have some novel news to share.

If we were having coffee I would tell you that I’ve started a new gig writing a dating/adventure game called LongStory. This is my first gaming script and I’m learning all about story variables and branches. Once a friend asked me how I kept everything straight that happened in my novel, and I shrugged and said it wasn’t hard. However, a game where the player gets to choose between multiple options that affect the direction and outcome of the story, all of which have to be written separately but also intersect, that is a challenge! And I’m really enjoying it!

If we were having coffee I’d also tell you that blogger and writer Melissa Barker-Simpson challenged me and Robin to some freestyle writing. This, I admit, is not something I’ve ever done. I am a plotter through and through. However it sounds like a fun challenge – write for 5, 10 or 15 minutes without stopping or editing. Melissa gave us a topic, but I have not looked at it yet because that’s part of the challenge – you can’t think about what you’re going to write before you write it.

I was going to do this challenge today during coffee, but alas, I’ve run out of time. Plus I need to go buy butter. Grilled Cheese parties require a lot of butter! But in the near future, Robin and I will surprise you all with a post featuring our freestyle writing! Stay tuned!

And with that, I must bid adieu. Unless of course you’re staying for grilled cheese. 🙂

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If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out the hashtag #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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Weekend Coffee Share – Back from Outer Space!

LeCoffee-1It’s been soooo long since we had coffee! I’ve missed you! But alas, it is not possible to sit down and drink hot beverages out of pretty mugs in zero gravity. You see, Robin and I were on a space mission for the Blogging A to Z Challenge. Our theme: 3, 2, 1… BLASTOFF to Stellar Writing! Every day except Sundays we wrote and posted writing tips to help your stories lift off and reach new heights. All-in-all, it was a successful month! For the details, check out Robin’s Mission Debriefing and this list of all our A-Z posts.

Now we are back to our regularly scheduled programming, with me posting on Mondays, Robin on Wednesdays, and alternating Weekend Coffee posts between us. We’ve even got a couple guest bloggers lined up this month – Natacha Guyot, who just released the book A GALAXY OF POSSIBILITIES, and Shawn Griffith of the wisdom-laden blog DownHomeThoughts.com.

real-neat-blog-awardSpeaking of Shawn, he has nominated WriteOnSisters for the Real Neat Blog Award. Thanks, Shawn! In this blog hop, the nominator creates original questions for the nominees. As we sip our tea/coffee, Robin and I will mull over our answers to Shawn’s questions…

1. What is your Quest?

H: I have two. The first is to be a best-selling author. Obviously. The second is to be capable of executing a kip, cast-to-handstand and giant on the high bars by the time I’m 40 (just a few years away). It would look like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x89uM45VZ_g. Admittedly, that last part (the giant) might be pushing it (it’s really hard), but dream big, right?!

R: My main quest is to raise some kick-ass kids. I know my boys have a ton going for them already, but I see every day as a challenge to help them grow stronger.

2. What is the airspeed velocity of an unladen swallow?

H: What??? I feel like I’m back in high school and this is a trick question on a math test, and my answer is sadly blank. Robin, can you answer this?

R: This one stumped me for a few minutes too, but eventually it sunk in. Not much Monty Python and the Holy Grail in my house lately; I’ve moved over to reruns of other British comedy shows like Red Dwarf and Absolutely Fabulous. I’m a total freak for Patsy and Eddy.

3. Why or why not is character important to you?

H: Because I’m a writer, I immediately thought this question referred to fictional character. Then I realized you might be asking about my own character, which I don’t think about very much since I’m too busy developing my novel’s heroine’s character. Both are important to me because I believe growing and changing is an essential part of being human, but clearly I’m neglecting my own character development. Now I feel I need to go rectify that…

R: I took this meant to mean personal character, at least that’s how I’m answering it. I started dating my husband because he was the most decent, loyal and ethical person I have ever met! My choice was not popular at the time; our friends thought we were too different to make it work. Now those same friends are all divorced and working on second marriages, or in some cases second divorces. I’m reminded everyday of the value of character.

4. Is it okay to lie, even a little white lie?

H: I believe it is, though I am really bad at lying and sometimes wish I was capable of delivering a “kindness lie” but I just can’t. PS – Please never ask me if I think your newborn baby is cute.

R: I’m a mom; white lies are in the job description. Who can look down into the tear-stained face of their bloody kid and not tell a lie? When my youngest almost died two years ago, I stood beside his hospital bed reassuring him that everything would be “okay” and smiling down at him so much my face hurt for two days. But I will never lie about writing! If someone asks me what I think, they should expect the unvarnished truth.

5. What is the hardest thing you have ever had to do?

H: When I was 25, I broke up with my boyfriend of six years. According to my small town friends, I had it all – a handsome, smart, considerate man with a good job who loved me, wanted to marry me and was my best friend. But for no reason anyone (including me) could understand, I was unhappy. So I took the leap and broke it off, and discovered the life I wanted to lead – and it was definitely not marriage+kids+suburbia. The lesson: lifestyle is an extremely important factor when deciding who to spend forever with!

R: Can I say these questions? Way to put me through the wringer, Shawn! : ) I’m an absurdly private person. I don’t naturally embrace social media or instantly think of witty things to say the way some people can. Plus my kids have been cyber bullied and that makes me wary. Starting WriteOnSisters was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Running a blog is unnervingly public, and I still fight the impulse to lurk.

Wow, now you know so much more about me and Robin! Without further ado, we nominate Melissa Barker-Simpson, Sue Coletta, Sara Letourneau, and Jann Alexander. Here are your five questions:

  1. What book, show or movie do you wish you’d written?

  2. If you wrote fan fiction, what would you write for and why? If you already write fan fiction just say why.

  3. What famous author (living or dead) would you most want to team up with to write a book?

  4. If you could have one day to use a time machine to go forward or backward in time, where would you go and why?

  5. Have you ever written anything that you wish you hadn’t?

Of course, you don’t need to be a nominee to answer the questions! Drop us a line in the comments. We’d love to get to know you better!

Thanks for stopping by for coffee. It’s been great catching up!

coffee2If We Were Having Coffee is a blog hop inspired and run by the lovely and talented Diana at Part Time Monster. Please drop by her place for coffee. You can also see what other bloggers are up to by checking out her hashtag: #WeekendCoffeeShare on Twitter.

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